{"id":1393,"date":"2017-05-29T10:06:00","date_gmt":"2017-05-29T16:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/?p=1393"},"modified":"2017-05-29T14:37:31","modified_gmt":"2017-05-29T20:37:31","slug":"surprised-by-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/?p=1393","title":{"rendered":"The Joy of Read Alouds"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Lately I have been reading much of C.S. Lewis. I just finished &#8220;Surprised by Joy&#8221; which is an account of Lewis&#8217; early life and his conversion to Christianity. One paragraph particularly caught my attention:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">&#8220;In reading Chesterton, as in reading Mac Donald, I did not know what I was letting myself in for. A young man who wishes to remain a sound Atheist cannot be too careful of his reading. There are traps everywhere- &#8221; Bibles laid open, millions of surprises,&#8221; as Herbert says, &#8221; fine nets and stratagems.&#8221; God is, if I may say it, very unscrupulous.&#8221;<span style=\"font-style: italic;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>As parents we must also be unscrupulous in managing what goes into our children . We need to make sure and provide them with books and thoughts that lead them to God. We never know what will grab our children&#8217;s attention and may be used later for God&#8217;s pleasure. In Psalms it says &#8220;Your Word have I hid in my heart that I might not sin against you.&#8221; We must be sure to help our children hide the word of God in their heart but also provide them with other materials that peak their interest towards God.<\/p>\n<p>I personally think we should be reading a great book or a fun book to our kids all the time. \u00a0Even in summer, holidays or vacations, having a good book to read aloud or a good audio book to listen to encourages our children to have a love of reading but also to teach them think bigger thoughts, to have a bigger worldview and to teach them important life lessons. \u00a0The great thing about read alouds is that you can read chapter books to kids who can&#8217;t even read yet. \u00a0We started all of ours with shorter chapter books by age 3.<\/p>\n<p>Links to some of my favorite books to read aloud &#8211;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2rOOuNX\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jeremy: The Tale of an Honest Bunny<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; for a younger crowd. \u00a0We read and loved this book.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2qvBmcu\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mrs. Piggle Wiggle Treasury<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; Great summer reading. \u00a0A chapter is a full story so it keeps littles attention. \u00a0We found this a great, funny intro into talking to our kids about behavior and consequences of behavior. \u00a0The consequences of bad behavior are a little magical and very far fetched but great fun.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2seCLVy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Chronicles of Narnia<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; If you haven&#8217;t read these book outloud ( even if kids have read them themselves), then you have missed out on some really meaningful discussion. \u00a0We went through them one summer with this family discussion guide, \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2s7StTg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Roar<\/a>, and really had some amazing family talks.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2qveutU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Princess and the Goblin and Princess and Curdie<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; George MacDonald is one of my favorite authors. \u00a0I don&#8217;t always understand his books and have to reread but these books are written for children. \u00a0They are a little intense, but so full of wisdom that we have read, and reread them.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2rdDp6d\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">At the Back of the North Wind Audio Drama<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; I love the Audio Drama from Focus on the Family. \u00a0We have listened to this on several road trips and it has led to wonderful talks with my kids.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2qvCmxg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Hobbit<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; JRR Tolkein wrote this as a read aloud for his kids and it is so much better read aloud or listened to on an Audio Book. \u00a0For my 5th grade and up kids, we read this and used the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2ryni6j\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Progeny Press Lit Guide<\/a>\u00a0for an added level of understanding.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2seGimM\">The Lord of the Rings<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; We read this outloud the first time and it completely had my kids engaged. \u00a0These are also great to use a\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2rdxZIH\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Literature Guide<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2qzCDia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Honey for a Child&#8217;s Heart<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; This is a book of book lists. \u00a0One of my favorite things ever. \u00a0I will caution you not to just hand a child any book without pre-reading. \u00a0The great things about read alouds is that you can stop and have a discussion of anything you need to with a read aloud. \u00a0You can also change words, soften a sentence or skip anything you feel is inappropriate. \u00a0I did this a lot. \u00a0This allowed me to read great books to my kids without some of the downsides.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2ry87tU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Honey for a Teen&#8217;s Heart<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; While we don&#8217;t do read alouds as often now, I try to do several a year just as a connection point with my teenagers. \u00a0Again, this often provides a great opportunity for discussion.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Categories: <a href=\"http:\/\/del.icio.us\/shiningexamples\/parenting\" rel=\"tag\">parenting<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Lately I have been reading much of C.S. Lewis. I just finished &#8220;Surprised by Joy&#8221; which is an account of Lewis&#8217; early life and his conversion to Christianity. One paragraph particularly caught my attention: &#8220;In reading Chesterton, as in reading Mac Donald, I did not know what I was letting myself in for. A [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[29,9,30,3,28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-elementary","category-homeschooling","category-middle-and-high-school","category-parenting","category-preschool"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7xcFa-mt","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1393"}],"version-history":[{"count":61,"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1393\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2575,"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1393\/revisions\/2575"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shiningexamples.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}